Shouldn't we be treating normal human beings with respect? I get what your gist is here, and I think it comes from a good place, but we live in a world that doesn't even remotely treat women as normal human beings, where many men seem incapable of just noticing a woman without creeping her out, and where swinging too far in the direction of not doing that is still an antidote to a world desperately in need of the sort of "lets treat all people well" sort of thinking.