SMH 🤦‍♀️ You live in a truly delusional world. The fact that you don't know any man who doesn't cook and clean for himself means you are a gross anomoly.

https://medium.com/inside-of-elle-beau/shes-your-wife-not-your-mom-128e47c43aa6

Have you ever heard a man say of his wife, “Oh, she’s really just another one of my kids.”?

Of course, you haven’t, but that’s a common sentiment expressed by women. “My husband is really just my third kid.” It’s often said good-naturedly as if it were an inevitable fact that is not ideal, but about which nothing can be done.

Married women, even those without children, do the bulk of the housework even when they work outside the home. In fact, the more a woman earns, the higher the percentage of chores she will typically perform. “The more economically dependent men are on their wives, the less housework they do. Even women with unemployed husbands spend considerably more time on household chores than their spouses.” It’s a not-so-subtle way of asserting, “But, I’m still the man!”

MEL Magazine (a men's magazine) coined the term, mandholding to describe this phenomenon, the expectation that women are just naturally good at and therefore should be responsible for making life run smoothly. “Free, invisible work women do to keep track of the little things in life that, taken together, amount to the big things in life: the glue that holds households, and by extension, proper society, together.”

Women are harassed and bothered by strangers on the street way, way more than men are. Most guys don't think twice about walking to their car by themselves on a dark night. All women think twice about it. If you want to talk about learning to put together their own IKEA shit, I'm with you, but the fact that nearly all men are going to have greater upper body strength than nearly all women means that your suggestion is nothing more than your emotional response to feeling butt-hurt about something and has no basis in reality.