"So what I am saying is the dispositional argument isn't true - it isn't just about bad actions or mistreatment, it is factual and existential - men despise the very category of women because they are socialised into rejecting everything that constitutes (supposedly) women- eg empathy, care, nurture, vulnerability, emotion in general, Imagination, closeness and connection to nature, reproductive ability as opposed to dominance, strength, 'rationality' (eg thinking like a disembodied machine which is actually impossible) insensitivity, toughness, skill, technology, analysis."

Her response was very on-point, and this part kind of sums it up for me.