Super happy - just celebrated 32 years of a great marriage with a lovely trip together. The main bug in my happiness is jerks like you. If you can't be bothered to educate yourself about the shit you offer opinions about, perhaps you should shut up and go take a walk in the park yourself instead rather than yammering on the internet about things you can’t be bothered to actually know anything about or understand.
I've been at the mercy of male toxicity for my entire life, coming up on 60 years. I experience it every single day. Trying to tell me it's not real or not important is what abusers do to absolve themselves. Do you also advise Black folks to stop making such a big deal about racism? Because it's about as tone-deaf and as entitled, white guy…
If you actually knew anything about alchemy, you'd understand that you have to accept and understand the aspects of the base elements before you can hope to transform them into something golden.
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