Thank you for the shout out and I think you've made a very good point here. One of the best parts about ethical non-monogamy for us is that it has opened up all the doors of communication and there is nothing we can't talk about. This has made us even closer than before.
Of course, not everyone wants or needs to have more than one sexual partner, but the whole dynamic that surrounds that assumption is often a huge problem, as you have so aptly pointed out.