Thank you for the shout out, and yes, I think this is a part of the issue, which ironically comes out of patriarchal dominance structure thinking - that life is zero-sum meaning in order to win, someone else has to lose. Just as gay marriage does not cheapen or in fact, impact hetero marriage in any way, giving basic human rights and dignity to trans women does not take anything away from women who are cis gender.

I love the idea of infinite pie (particularly if it's blueberry) where offering someone a slice still leaves plenty for all. 🥧