Thanks for reading and I'm wishing you both the best. It's a challenging path, to be sure. Just remember that "being together" doesn't have to look any certain way. Part of the TF trajectory is to to challenge conventional notions of love and relationship. My TF and I are both married to other people. We live on opposite sides of the country, and we are very much together - just not in a conventional way. When things get bumpy in the 3D world, I have learned (the hard way over many years) to lean into the cosmic connection, which is always solid and nourishing. The relationship is rife with learning opportunities but the connection is always beautiful. Hang in there!