Thanks for the info Joe Duncan. I appreciate it. I got tired of fielding the kinds of inquiries that I didn’t want on Fetlife, and as a woman, even a 55 year old woman, I was getting at least one a day. I have yet to find a website that really works well for me, although we are about to join the one affiliated with Desire since we are planning another trip there in the Fall.

Desire is couples only and most people are in the 35–60 age range. When we were there last Fall, the vibe was just exactly what we wanted — friendly, easy-going lifestyle couples who aren’t looking to hook-up with everything that moves. Crossing fingers!