Thanks for the mention and for this thoughtful piece. I think there are some people who are entirely hetero or homosexual, but that they are in the vast minority. Most people are somewhere on the spectrum of other possibilities and it’s really hard for guys, in particular, to get past the socialization around what it means when guys like/want/love other guys. But I also think its admirable that you believe your husband and that you are finding a way to make these different styles work.