Thanks for the mention and glad that you are asking yourself these questions while still giving yourself a lot of leeway to act or not on your own timetable. I truly believe that who we actually are as a sexual being is completely overlaid with cultural narratives, religious indoctrination, and other detritus that has to be pulled back in order to find what we actually want for ourselves. Sometimes a fantasy is just that; and sometimes its an indication of a real interest in trying something new.
I have always liked women only porn, but for me it’s mostly because they are more likely to convey that they are actually enjoying each other, and that’s hot. Watching a guy who looks and acts like he’s doing the woman a favor with his weird looking oversized dick while she makes absurd noises does not turn me on.
Here’s my further take on sexual fluidity and the joys of kissing women.