Thanks Herb for your insights. I've read a little bit about this, and even seen some articles written by marriage and family counselors who don't seem to know anything at all about CNM, which is a bit surprising since it's on the rise. They equate things like swinging with polyamory and are just generally plugged into a "traditional" mindset. Hopefully, at least some people will be able to hear what you are saying without getting ticked off, because it seems that some broadening of horizons is definitely needed.