Thanks so much for the shout out and the compliment. For the record, I read you often, and can't think of anything substantive that I've ever disagreed with. I have, however, had a few guys tell me I was crazy to listen to you - as if you were somehow brainwashing me, instead of affirming what I already know and believe as a person with 60 years experience as a woman in this culture, as well as decades of study about how our cultures operates, including the sex/dating/relationship/love aspects.

I guess it's more fun to scapegoat women than it is to do the work to invest in yourself, but guys who really are serious about a happier, healthier social life really ought to listen to you.