That's bullshit! I've had a lot of very hard things that have happened to me in my life and none of that turned me into a monster. You didn't turn into a monster. They could have found belonging in other ways.

Too many men consciously or subconsciously believe that women exist for their pleasure and enjoyment, to make their lives more comfortable. Fifty years ago advertisements aimed at women taught them how to do a better job of accomplishing this, and despite some progress this belief is still alive in the culture. Incels are upset that the women they are owed are not forthcoming. They feel ripped off - and that's where the anger at women comes from. The entitlement aspect was always there - the anger comes from not having that entitlement fulfilled on. Vile is right...