That's great, but times have changed. The Canadian government, the Texas government, the Secret Service and a whole bunch of other people who have studied this stuff say that at this point incels are a violent and dangerous radicalized group. The fact that this wasn't your experience really doesn't count for much.

“According to a new study by the Center for Countering Digital Hate (CCDH), these incels are only getting more dangerous.

The CCDH’s Quant Lab analyzed 1 million posts on one of the most popular incel forums and found that the group has become increasingly radicalized over the past year and a half. CCDH Founder and CEO Imran Ahmed told the Washington Postthat the forum is part of a “novel, new violent extremist movement born in the internet age” with a “cogent ideology” intent on harming women and girls. The report found that there’s been a notable spike in conversations around pedophilia, especially with prepubescent girls, and mass killings. The report also found that members mention the word “kill” approximately every 37 minutes and the word “rape” every 29 minutes. The forum is visited by roughly 2.6 million people a month.”