That's not what I said at all. If that was your take-away, you need to go back and reread. There are only 23% of kids being raised in male/female households. Aren’t you happy to learn that despite this rather alarming statistic, these boys aren’t doomed — that if they get love and support they can still do OK — even if their dad died, even if their dad abandoned them, even if they’ve got two moms?