That's pretty much what I just told you and what is in the story that I linked to you, so I'm not sure who you think you are arguing with around that. But that doesn't prove anything as relates to this particular case - something that seems completely lost on you.

The author pointed out that overwhelmingly the things that Heard is being accused of have already been dismissed by a UK judge as having no substance. And, you haven't refuted that in any way. And since you can't refute it, you're just ranting on about an abstract issue and somehow believing that it proves your point. It doesn't.

Instead of hijacking someone else's story, why don't you write something informative about how men are also abused by women and how that is still not widely known or accepted - mostly because in a patriarchal culture, that is considered shameful for men? That would be a utile and meaningful use of your upset around this, which is rather obviously based in some personal experience.

You seem to believe that you are schooling me on this subject, but I've already written a story about this topic, where I say, in part:

"The way we construct masculinity excludes weakness and assumes men will be physically dominant over one another and over women. It’s what sociologist Paul Kivel calls the “act-like-a-man box,” in which men are expected to be violent and in control, particularly in control of women, while supressing their emotions and sucking it up whenever life doesn’t go their way. When a man steps outside of this box, he is often ridiculed as weak or as not being a “real” man.

Needless to say, this actively contributes to men being reluctant to come forward or to ask for assistance when violence is perpetrated against them by a woman. And when they do, sometimes men are shamed or not taken seriously. But once again, this is a problem that stems from patriarchal culture. If being considered manly didn’t necessarily require all of the above characteristics, this would not be the case.

Conclusion: A culture that glorifies violence as the manly (and thereby desirable) way to handle your problems isn’t doing anyone any favors. And a patriarchal culture that shames or dismisses men who have been abused by women as being weak or lacking in masculinity means that this very real and serious issue stays largely in the shadows."

So, you accusing me of things I haven't said, and which I in fact, openly believe the opposite of, doesn't actually make your point either. It doesn't "show me" and most importantly, it doesn't resolve the intensive feelings you have around this topic, which is really where you ought to be putting your time and energy, rather than lashing out at other people, like the author of the OP, who are also in pain.