That’s really charming how you ascribe all kinds of things to me based in absolutely nothing at all but your bias and wounding. Did you never consider that you attract psychos who are so damaged that they think asshole behavior is attractive? You are the common denominator in this narrative, after all. 😁

If you are going to bring in the evolutionary biology card you have to take into consideration that any aspects of feeling safe with a powerful man go out the proverbial cave window if that guy is a terrible mate and father/potential father in other ways. And someone who is selfish, controlling, domineering and narcissistic is going to be a bad mate/father. In other words, it doesn’t fly. Sorry, that parrot is truly dead!