The Analogy That Helps Me Cope With the Twin Flame Dynamic

It’s been incredibly difficult, but this thought form gives me some equilibrium

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I used to write about my Twin Flame (TF), Nat, quite a bit — trying to make sense of some of the more challenging aspects of our relationship and passing along what I’d learned about the TF dynamic. Then we broke up, and I no longer knew what to say. We patched things up and got back in each other’s lives, but many things had changed and it was hard to explain because I didn’t really understand it myself at times. We weren’t “together” anymore, and yet, there is no way for us to be apart.

I used to refer to Nat as my life partner, and in all the ways that matter, he still is, although I no longer use that term. He is more than my lover, even though we haven’t seen each other in person in many years, he is more than my family, more than a friend — although he is both of those things. Nat is my Twin Flame, and although that is something that I’ve described in detail in the past, it is in many ways beyond description. It’s a cosmic connection that doesn’t always make sense in worldly terms. Trying to wrap my brain around that and live with the inherent paradox of it has been challenging, to say the least, but it’s a part of the journey.