The author has made a very well reasoned and supported story and you are the one who has attacked it out of hand based on nothing other than your hurt feelings from your own personal disappointments. You are the one who has presented nothing at all that supports your so-called position. I don't have time or the inclination to re-write this excellent story again in order to point out to you all the places that it is on target and where other commenters agreed with it. I don't need to because Yael already did that. So sigh all you want to, but it's a lame attempt to not have to actually make your case and to turn the tables back on those who have already made theirs.

BTW, I've written dozens of stories about how patriarchy harms men and social interactions between men and women. What have you written other than snarky, butthurt comments on other people's stories?