The fact that you have so little concept of what women face on a societal level IS turning a blind eye. So is making silly statements about most women demanding James Bond and then admitting later that you know that isn't actually true.

You come across as someone who dislikes women, and doesn't have a lot of respect for them - and yet, really wants to have a loving partner. Newsflash - those things don't go together all that well. I hope things continue to go well for you, but cutting out the sweeping generalizations about how women are so unfair would be a good attitude adjustment that helps you to stay on a more positive path.