The issue isn't a demand for sex - that's entirely natural and non-problematic. This issue is a demand for non-consensually dominating sex - which is not about connection, it's about abusing someone else to make you feel better about yourself. Cultures that embrace that already exist around the world. Unfortunately, patriarchies are more prevalent, and the core element of a patriarchy is a dominance-based social hierarchy. Transform that and everything else changes for the better. It's not magically perfect, but it is a lot better. Look to Denmark as one example of a Modern Western country with a great economy that doesn't go for all that patriarchy.