The men who don't give a fuck about women's loneliness or women's safety do not deserve to have their issues put to the fore. When they show some compassion and empathy, perhaps they can then receive some in return.

I write almost daily about the ways that our social system harms and disadvantages men, as well as women, but I have zero patience for the men who have no concept of their privilege, who don't give a fuck about women's pain or women's lives demanding that we put all of our focus on them. This is a big part of what misogyny means - it means that women have a role and a lane and that is essentially to be human givers rather than human beings. Sorry, (not sorry) but I’m not going to stand for that.

I have compassion for anyone who is lonely. I don’t have any extra outpouring for the kinds of men who think their loneliness is the more important than anyone else’s — and there’s a whole cottage industry of those types these days.

Her humanity may hence be held to be owed to other human beings, and her value contingent on her giving moral goods to them: life, love, pleasure, nurture, sustenance, and comfort, being some such. This helps to explain why she is often understood perfectly well to have a mind of her own, yet punished in brutal and inhumane ways when that mind appears to be oriented to the wrong things, in the wrong ways, to the wrong people — including herself and other women.

Manne, Kate. Down Girl (pp. 22–23). Oxford University Press. Kindle Edition.