There are groups of men out there (and have been since the 70s) working to transform mainstream masculine norms that involve things like aggression, domination, and control of women - because these are at the root of the problem. We need more men to educate themselves about these dynamics and to band together to shift cultural norms that, to be honest, harm men as much as women, just in slightly different ways.

Check out Mark Greene here on Medium or Jackson Katz's book The Macho Paradox for more about how men can make an actual difference in the changing the culture.