There's almost no such thing as real misandry. If there are women who actually hate men, it's because of a lifetime of mistreatment by them - both individually and systemically as a demographic - and they are very small subsection of women. If you think that Black men aren't perpetrating misogyny and are unwilling to give up what privilege they do have, you haven't talked to any Black women about that - or taken note of things in the news like the R. Kelly scandal.

In addition, a recent large study indicates that most feminists don't hate or even dislike man at all - they don't like many of the things that happen to them at the hands of men, and they don't like the aspects of normative masculinity that contribute to that, but the trope of the man-hating feminists is nothing but a story used by some men to derail the conversation about improving women's lives and instead turn the focus back to men.

Can you give me a concrete example of where feminism seems unreasonable to you, because I've honestly no idea what you are talking about.