They aren't gathering daily on the internet to discuss whether or not men have souls or how the best way to rape men and get away with it. They aren't worshipping people who went on murder sprees to kill innocents.
There are lonely women out there as I noted in the OP, but there are also tons of women who are leaving dating/relationships behind on purpose because it's too hard to find anyone worthwhile and they are sick of the bullshit.
But there are also tons of women who are getting married for the first time in their 40s, 50s, and 60s.
"These tropes from a bygone era about women wanting to marry a man primarily for security and running out of time if she doesn’t lock one down by her early 30s just aren’t borne out by the data. As more women make economic gains, more and more they want a man who not only pulls his own weight but who is also a true partner. Perhaps the persistent stories about women who are too educated or too successful missing out on love are being passed around by the segment of men who don’t want to come into the 21st century and act like the partners that so many women want."