This exactly!!

"So if you want to change the narrative about men, it has to start with you. Instead of blaming women, feminism, society, start with you. Be the man you wish to be. If a friend jokes about cheating on his girlfriend, call him out on it. If a man makes a joke about breasts or breastfeeding, call him out on it. If a man uses words like “chick”, “pussy”, “whore” to describe women, call him out on it. Take a stand for abortion. Become what you want men to be known as."