This is an intentional (although probably sunconscious) tactic to turn the narrative away from women's concerns back towards men and how they are the ones being unfairly treated. It's meant to derail the conversation so they don't have to grapple with the substance of it. It also fails to recognize that men doing bad things aren't aliens from another planet but regular men acting out mainstream masculine norms - albeit to an extreme beyond where most other men ever go.