This is exactly what we need. We've all been indoctrinated into our culture and taking a good hard look at the ways those mainstream cultural norms actually harm women is vital to reducing violence against women, but also violence against other men as well. Domination is a core element of being "a real man." And even if you as a man don't participate in that, how do you turn a blind eye to it or otherwise enable it so as not to be viewed as "less than manly"? This IS the work that is needed to improve our culture - for women, but in truth, for us all. An excellent piece!