This is so important to talk about, and so awful that we still need to. I wrote a while back how 1 in 16 girls have their first sexual experiences be forced (e.g. rape) -often due to the kind of coercion you described, but also to being overpowered, drugged, etc.

It took me until my late 40s to reclaim my sexuality in a healthy way where I recognized it as mine. Girls shouldn't have to grow up in fear, trauma, and the belief that their sexual selves only exist to please men.