This made me LOL. The double standard is truly stupid, but yeah, women should do what they want to with their faces/bodies. Cher looks great and I hope she's having fun.
I remember my beautiful 89 year old mother looking in the mirror and saying to me, "I look soo old..." Maybe it wasn't what she wanted to hear, but I told her, "Mom, you are old, and it's better than the alternative." It's not like I'm looking forward to having a lot of wrinkles and gray hair, but I'm also not afraid of it. At nearly 60, I'm somewhere in the middle - dying my hair and using high quality skin care but also realizing that I'm not 30 anymore and that's OK.