This right here is the true issue. In patriarchal culture, women's bodies and sexuality exist for men's pleasure and enjoyment. There are all sorts of pejorative names for a woman who owns her own sexuality, who embraces her own pleasure, and who doesn't put it out there primarily for a man's enjoyment.

That JAW ad was hot! It was ALL about his sexy body, which just happened to be wearing Calvins. They were absolutely not the focus of the ad - except perhaps to straight men who didn't want to recognize how effing sexy he was given the chance to be. It looks like FKA Twigs was just standing there. White was parading around, stretching, arching, and behaving in an overtly sexual manner. But he's a white man, so that's OK. 🙄