This was a good piece filled with important information, but I just want to make clear that having a fantasy of being ravished by a man you desire as much as he desires you does not equate to women actually wanting to be raped - a dynamic that inherently involves having a complete loss of body autonomy which is extremely traumatizing. Women are turned on at the thought of being irrationally desired, not at the thought of being in a situation where they literally have given no form of consent.