Traits are only "toxic" if they are harming you and others. But, if you think that aggression, dominating others, artificially repressing any vulnerable emotions but anger, and trying to control women are your best attributes, it is probably a good idea to re-evaluate those because there is literally no way they are not causing harm - to you and to others.

Just so we're clear, pointing out the things that I do is not a demand that you do anything whatsoever. It's information for you to use or discard as you wish. It's not exactly in my power to make anyone do anything. I'm just giving food for thought.