We are never going to agree about any of this, in part because you are accusing me of believing in things that I've already told you I don't believe in. Plus, you don't believe in data that is widely accepted as being accurate by those who study those topics.

In other words, there's no point in continuing...

Edit: I just ran across yet another story about a woman describing a grown adult male who was used to having his mom do everything for him. I don’t suppose that will make a dent but I’m including it anyhow.

I Divorced a Man-Child — And He’s Still Making My Life Hell

“His mom always took care of him. He never had to learn to do housework or use an appliance like the washer or the iron. Mom picked up after him.”