Well, I don't know what to tell you because I've never seen that unless it is done in the context of hijacking a woman's story, or otherwise conveying that information in a way that tries to recenter men in a conversation about what women suffer in this culture. Perhaps you should reconsider how you bring that kind of thing up - because if it's done as a way to silence women and say "But what about MEEEEE" it's not going to go over well.

In general, feminism is the only major movement that does actually care about that stuff, because as I noted already, it understands the social dynamics in play as well as how the dominance hierarchy operates. It seeks to dismantle patriarchal systems, because feminism knows that patriarchy harms everyone. And once again, conflating what a couple of women on the internet do with the organizational goals of feminist organizations is convenient but also not very precise.