We're all attracted to people who are out of our league. That's not exactly a secret or a surprise. Our entire culture is built around parading "beautiful" people as the ideal and selling us on how to become more like them, but at the end of the day, the matching hypothesis (which you brought up) is in effect. And even though you are also attracted to women who are out of your league, moaning about how you are somehow entitled to them, rather than spending your time on trying to meet and date someone you are "a match" for sets you up to be unhappy. My reality is fine. I suggest you re-evaluate yours.