What are you even talking about? This story isn't about men - it's about people and how when you take radical responsibility for yourself, it turns you into an incredibly powerful person.

Wayne Gretzky needs to tell strangers who have arbitrary goals for him to go fuck themselves. That is not remotely similar in any way to taking part in a team (or in a society) and noticing without ego crutches how what you do and don't do affects your own life as well as those around you.