What you've essentially asserted is that women owe a relationship to a man that she doesn't feel that way about. Why on earth is that OK? Of course men want real love and relationships too, but they don't get to have them with whomever they choose. The woman has to actually want it as well. The only reason that men are incensed that women "friend zone" them is that they feel entitled to more if they want it, which is a real issue that women face - where guys are nice to them only to get something, not to actually be nice. Which was a large part of Yael's point. The fact that sometimes someone you have been interested in wasn't into you is the reality of dating for everyone. Grow up!