What's wrong with telling the truth here? By his own admission, he pressured her into a life that she quite obviously didn't want (but that made him happy). He needs to take some responsibility for that. She doesn't get a free pass for things like cheating but I'm sick of men who lay all the blame at their wives feet without taking any responsibility whatsoever for how they contributed to the situation. Not going to apologize for calling that out. Read the many other similar responses from women — all essentially saying the same thing.