Which are all a function of toxic patriarchal norms. You buying into them isn't what is going to make them go away. Plenty of women do what they want - wear no make-up, don't shave, dress as they like, and are happy and healthy - and have mates (or not, as they wish). There is no law that you have to subscribe to those societal demands. In fact, I highly recommend that you don't, and instead start focusing on who you really are and who you want to be in the world. Because what's really attractive to everyone is confidence and owning who you are.

Both Malala Yousefzai and Kylie Jenner just turned 18. Kylie got botox and a ferrari, Malala got a Nobel Peace Prize. Guess which one is happier and saner?