Who promised equality of treatment? Certainly not I. I simply point out that when, for example, you read a story that provides overwelming data that women admire and want kindness from men as the primariy thing they are attracted to - something that is 100% in your power to be and do, that you come up with all sorts of half-baked reasons why that won't work, all of which are made up and have no basis in any reality except for the defeatest one that you are insisting on inhabiting. For example, kindness absolutely comes through on the internet. I both experience it and am recognized for dishing it out on a regular basis.

And speaking of your faith, where is it is this bleak equation where life is hopeless and everyone is against you? It clearly gives you no comfort, no direction, no sense of succor or relief from the vagaries of life. What good is it to you then if you don't employ it for what it's meant for? Where is your spiritual community in this equation?