Women who write openly about sex also tend to attract men who are overly interested in them. I had one the other day who when I politely told him that I wasn’t interested, said that maybe he’d have to come find me. This wasn’t the first time this has happened and it made me ever so glad to have a professional name and a VPN.

I find that I’m able to be completely open and entirely honest because I’m not worried about someone whom I’d rather not know stumbling across my writing.