Wow! Thanks for the tips. I will now go and amend my life and writing to suit your specifications.

I use stock photos for all of my stories. I do not ever use personal pictures (with one exception). I am 55, so no, I don’t look like that — anymore. 😉

By the way, James and I are outright polyamorous. That’s what having intimate connections of various kinds with different people means. I have another male life partner as well. In fact, I was recently asked by a tv production company if I wanted to test for their new show about polyamory.

“Hey, do you want to go on tv and talk about non-monogamy?”

If you don’t have anything better to do than hate-read other people’s stories, you must live a pretty shallow and meaningless existence.