WTF? No, they aren't. They are told that they've been socialized to be that way in a dysfunctional dominance-based social system. And no real feminist is dismissive of the things that men face in this culture - real mainstream feminism is about equality and freedom from patriarchy for everyone - because that hurts men too. Just because feminists are focused primarily on women (as they should be) doesn't mean they don't care about men.

This androcentric culture is demonstrably toxic to everyone - including men. Until you recognize that and stop blaming women for tying to improve the world in ways that will also benefit you - albeit in less direct ways - the cycle will indeed continue.