Yep, my ND brother in law is very "what you see is what you get." He doesn't play games, tell lies, or get enmeshed in masculine social hierarchies. He treats his beautiful, accomplished girlfriend like a person and an equal. I don't think they had sex until their 9th or 10th date although they certainly kissed and fooled around some before then, but she was thrilled that he never pressured her about that until she was truly ready, and it engendered a lot of trust. He gave her a vibrator for Valentines Day soon after, and we thought that was maybe a bit too soon, but she loved it. They spend a lot of fun time together, but also quite a bit apart - both enjoying the freedom, I think. It's a remarkably healthy relationship as far as I can tell and they both seem quite happy together.