Yes, I had this happen with a guy James and I were playing with and to me, it really was not a big deal. It was our first time together, we didn't know each other well, and although he was comfortable doing MFM, there was another guy there. It was totally understandable and just not that important to me. It was much more of an issue for him. I had a good enough time that I wanted to see him again, but he kept evading. Maybe there were other reasons for that, but I really think it was that he was self-conscious, which was too bad.