Yes, you are quite correct, treating others with basic human dignity is my ideology. And no, in a government or institutional setting, you do not have the right to call me whatever you want. Free speech is not an absolute thing and already has a lot of legal exceptions to it, both in the US and Canada. Then there’s that pesky business of participating in a civil society — princess! Your libertarian wild west ideas may sound like you are standing for individuality — but you aren’t only an individual; you are a part of a society — one that has rules and laws for helping it function well. Discriminatory speech is antithetical to that which is why it’s illegal in both the US and Canada.
“The law also prohibits speech that shows clear intent to discriminate (emphasis mine) or sexually harass.”