You are being a jerk. Dating apps are 75-90% men. Of course women get messaged more. That's just supply and demand. And no, women are not "spoiled for attention." There are plenty of lonely women out there. Stop parroting the rhetoric of incels and PUAs.

Women don't just guard their safety, they live in a state of constant vigilance and/or fear - and no, no one should have to do that. It has huge detrimental psychological effects. Most men are never in any danger that they need to guard against. Only a small subset of men who live in dangerous areas are ever at significant risk of violence. I don't know any men who have been in a fight since they were in middle school, or who have otherwise been in any sort of danger from a stranger or a partner and I'm guessing you don't either. Meanwhile, every woman you know, including your mother and grandmother, has some experience and maybe even a lot, with being made to feel afraid, with sexual violence, with harassment, discrimination, being discounted, talked over, etc.

I notice you did not answer any of my questions about when was the last time you were afraid, when was the last time you were accosted by a stranger, when was the last time you were worried you might be raped on a date... If your answer is never, as I'm pretty sure that it is, you need to STFU and get over yourself. You would not like to be groped by someone that you weren't attracted to, who you feared might try to rape you and the fact that you would say something so stupid means that you've never once had your body autonomy disrespected. All women live with that their entire lives. Men do have challenges in our culture, but they aren't the made up ones you are talking about.

And it means that I'm done trying to talk some sense and/or empathy into you.

BTW, the fact that you act like a petulant child who resents women and believes that they're lives are easy is not something that makes you more attractive.

I'm out...