You are deciding how it is based on how you imagine that it is. Much of what you’ve said is out of line with research, data and facts. As just one example:

Study finds huge gender imbalace in children's literature

Gender bias uncovered in children's books with male characters, including male animals, leading the…

Based on the fact that you don’t actually know what you are talking about but persist on claiming it is the truth, I’m going to bow out of this conversation because there is no point in continuing it under these circumstances.