You are once again making my point for me. What you are describing is men so desperate for "sexual access" that they will fuck anything that moves. But that isn't a good thing for women. It's not what they are looking for. They don't want a man who is essentially telling them, "I don't care about you as a human being at all. I'm just desperate and want something to let me fuck it - and I'll no doubt do it badly because I'm focused on myself and don't give a flip about you." That's not a bountiful cornucopia situation for women - it's a large pool of demeaning, misogyny. Yuck! And the fact that so many guys don't grasp that is a huge part of the issue.